I have watched so much sadness over the past 18 years. My grandchildren who have been kept from us for so long and what they must think, keeps me from sleeping at night, but yesterday...I made the over 400 mile trip once again to meet my son so he could sign papers for me to take to the courthouse to file for him today.
While I was there we went to eat. We were talking about his girls and much he misses them and how horrible this system is to allow this to happen to his children.
I thought all the questions had been asked over the years, all the who, what, when and where's and let's don't forget the how's, but last night my son asked me something I have not been able to get off my mind.
He looked at me and said, "Mom when me and my brother was kids you protected us, you raised us to know that family is everything. I would walk through fire for my kids, step out in front of a truck to protect them, I would give up my own life to save them." His eyes turned red and with a slight tear in each one, he said to me, "How do I protect my kids from Attorneys and Judges?"
For the first time in my son's 36 years on this earth, I was unable to pop back with an answer.
There is no protection for your children from the evils of family court and the attorneys and judges that work within them. Do they teach them in college how to ruin people's lives? Do they give them a manual that says...don't pay any attention to the kids when they cry for their daddy. Do they teach them that mommie is all they need, so don't worry about the lives of the father's. Do they teach them just how much money they can make from ruining children's lives? Do the professors at these schools of law actually stand up in front of the room and say, {Divorce is the best field to get into, there is so much money to be made, it will blow your mind how rich you can become..the only thing you have to remember...do not pay any attention to the lives of the children and pay absolutely no attention to the father's lives you will be destroy!}
I found myself looking into the eyes of my precious son...who was red eyed over his precious children and after all the fighting for them we have done and all the money that we have spent and are still spending...the only people that have benefited from this very long ordeal over my grandchildren...are the attorneys.
Our Heavenly Father, I come to you on bended knees, with my heart and the hearts of my son and his children, and the hearts of all the children that have lost half of them selves through our family court system...Lord please lay your hand on each and every one of them and bring peace to them while we march on to fix this horrible system they call family court, but I call un-family court. I asked in Jesus name Amen!
I call it un-family court, cause you might go into it a family...but when you come out there is no such thing as family anymore.
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